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When things go wrong, stop and ask yourself a question. Do you want to make circumstances worse, or do you wish to make things better? Getting angry and resentful will take a bad situation and make it even more difficult. Focusing solely on who is to blame and seeking some form of retribution will not solve the problem. Instead, step back from what's going on, and make every effort to look objectively, with an open mind, at all the factors involved. Take a few moments to calmly put everything into perspective. When things go wrong, you will always find an abundance of opportunities for making a positive difference. Difficult situations, as undesirable as they may be, often carry with them valuable possibilities that cannot be found anywhere else. Look for a way to respond that will end up putting you in a stronger position than you were before the setback occurred. See the situation as an opportunity, and that's what it will become. When things go wrong, you have the chance to step forward and create real, meaningful, and much-needed value. The momentum you build in doing so will continue to carry you quickly ahead. -- Ralph Marston...

EVERYONE CAN'T BE IN YOUR FRONT ROW!!!!!!!!!! Life is a theater so invite your audiences carefully. Not everyone is holy enough and healthy enough to have a FRONT ROW seat in our lives. There are some people in your life that need to be loved from a distance. It's amazing what you can accomplish when you let go, or at least minimize your time with draining, negative, incompatible, not-going-anywhere relationships, friendships, fellowships and family! EVERYONE CAN'T BE IN YOUR FRONT ROW!!!!!!!!! Observe the relationships around you. Pay attention to: Which ones lift and which ones lean? Which ones encourage and which ones discourage? Which ones are on a path of growth uphill and which ones are just going downhill? When you leave certain people, do you feel better or feel worse? Which ones always have drama or don't really understand, know and appreciate you and the gift that lies within you? EVERYONE CAN'T BE IN YOUR FRONT ROW!!!!!! The more you seek God and the things of God, the more you seek quality, the more you seek not just the hand of God but the face of God, the more you seek things honorable, the more you seek growth, peace of mind, love and truth around you, the easier it will become for you to decide who gets to sit in the FRONT ROW and who should be moved to the balcony of your life. EVERYONE CAN'T BE IN YOUR FRONT ROW!!!!!!!! You cannot change the people around you...but you can change the people you are around! Ask God for wisdom and discernment and choose wisely the people who sit in the FRONT ROW of your life. Remember that FRONT ROW seats are for special and deserving people and those who sit in your FRONT ROW should be chosen carefully. EVERYONE CAN'T BE IN YOUR FRONT ROW!!!!!!!!...

WHERE WOULD YOU BE: IF YOU HAD ALL THE MONEY YOUR HEART DESIRES? IF YOU HAD NO WORRIES? IF YOU CAME HOME AND THE FINEST MEAL IS AWAITING YOU? IF YOUR BATHWATER HAD BEEN RUN? IF YOU HAD THE PERFECT KIDS? IF YOUR PARTNER WAS AWAITING YOU, WITH OPEN ARMS AND KISSES? SO, WHERE WOULD YOU BE? HELLOOooo!!!!!!!!! YOU'D BE IN THE WRONG HOUSE!!!!!!!...