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The "vagina", the organ that both confuses men and provides them with an abundance of pleasure. The "clitoris" is a small bud-like formation (and this bud's for you) located where the top of the inner vaginal lips meet. It usually conceals itself under a small hood of skin, but when aroused, it expands and emerges like an awakened universe of pleasure. Most women can achieve a clitoral orgasm more easily than a G-spot orgasm. Stimulate It : (gently and carefully -- that means that you shouldn't scratch, grind, bite, or squeeze it.) Believe it or not, many women have the ability to ejaculate. But because they either feel like they are about to urinate or have been belittled, they hold back. Encourage her to go with the sensation, but if she's not well in tune with her body, she may actually pee all over you. Be understanding. Men have two heads and women have three pairs of lips, the more to "kiss" their men with. The inner and outer lips, the proper term for these wonderful tissues of flesh are labia major and labia minor. The labia major (the outer lips) cover the entire vagina and protect it from the ugly bacteria. Keeping it much, much cleaner than your mouth. The labia minor (the inner lips) open up to let your member penetrate her. Stimulate Them : jumping onto the outer lips is recommended only if she's trim or shaved. The G-spot (Grafenberg spot) is one of the seven wonders of the girl, yet the location of it varies slightly from woman to woman. Don't worry guys; men also have a G-spot -- the prostate gland. Stimulate Ms. G : insert a finger (or two) into the vagina with your palm facing her pubic bone. Gently bend your fingers frontward so that they stroke the front wall of the vagina. If you continue to stroke this spot with varying degrees of pressure, it is quite possible that you'll be hitting the jackpot soon enough. You'll have a much better chance of hitting G in the Spoon position (lying side by side and yes, you're behind her) or in the ever-famous Doggy position. Again, keep in mind that all women are different and sex is supposed to be fun. What's important to remember is that there are all kinds of variations of women's orgasm, including vaginal ones that don't require G-spot or clitoral stimulation (yes, they're quite rare). Remember not to play Russian roulette with your penis -- always have a six-pack of hats handy for your jimmy. Guide to making a Good Sex Tape...... aiight youngins, after reveiwing several amatuer sex tapes by your favorite celebrities I've decided to post guidlines on how to make a good one. I know several of you dunces are at home thinking if Paris Hilton can make one you can make one too. Just read these guidlines before you leap into a lifetimes worth of embarrassment. 1. Choose an actor/actress who is camera material. Please don't go to your local liqour store picking up your local whino. I hope you pick someone you love and trust. here is an example of what could go wrong when you pick the wrong castmembers for the hardheaded: [IMG] http://i114.: photobucket.com/albums/n258/mzkittydeveraux/217739620.jpg [/IMG] 2. Don't be on camera trying to win an Oscar on cam while your partner over there trying to win a Razzie for least work done in a sex tape. Usually the one who is just sitting there doing nothing is the same person who is gonna send a copy to your mama, daddy and church/ media when you piss them off. example of one person doin all the work while the other tapes: http://www.uselessj: unk.com/article_full.php?id=16213 now how is she gonna explain this to her mama and daddy?! 3. Once production is wrapped up. Please don't leave the tape around your damn house!!! Your ass deserve to get caught and embarrased if you do. Do you leave your dirty draws around the house? Well why leave the sex tape around. example: I know someone who found a sex tape in her house featuring her boyfriend with who was supose to be his cousin, on her couch. He thought he hid it by mixing it in with the rest of the tapes and put it in a case of another movie she never watched. 3a. Once caught please don't use the excuse that you were drunk. It makes you look even worse. Not only are you a whore but you are a whore who gets drunk and fucks random people on tape, lollll. 4. NEVER ASK FOR A CLOSE UP ON A SEX TAPE!!!! If there are people out there that you care what they think about you just to be on the safe side, do a R. Kelly don't look directly into the camera. Do a side shot, a back shot but bever a full face shot. That was if caught you can blame it on your long lost twin sibling, loll. 4a. Don't attempt to do your own choreopgraphy on during a sex tape. example: the R. Kelly sex tape when chick was hoo-la-hooping minus the hoo-la-hoop. that was almost as embarrassing as doing the chicken noodle soup dance on tape, lmaooooo with a soda on the side. example: http://www.youtube.: com/watch?v=VOTy_64e9MA thats all for now class! Threesomes - The Basic Guide Threesomes - The Basic Guide Threesome with your wife, or threesome with somebody's wife? Let's get kinky, what about threesome with your wife plus a bi sexual woman. Would you like to double the pleasure? Are you looking for a threesome? If you are experienced in threesome sex, you do not need advice. Because you are here, I guess though that you don't have too much experience. Threesomes are the same as everything else in the life. First you have to learn what to do and how to do it, and then practice it. Practice makes it perfect. For a threesome we need a couple and a third person. The idea of let's have a threesome usually sparks out from the males brain. It does happen because all the males are genetically designed this way. One of the old... gene controls the male's brain. If a healthy man meets with a pretty woman, sooner or later he will imagine her as a sex partner. The old gene wants to make the man spread the life's seed. Women are genetically designed to nurture and love. Their focus was to build a nest. To take care of the family that their mating has produced. It used to be this way, but not anymore. This female gene doesn't work the way it used to work 50 years ago. Today every women has the same sexual freedom as men. In the US approximately 10 million open minded people believe in sexual freedom and live in some kind of sexual freedom. So the idea to have a threesome didn't necessarily come from the male part of the couple. If she or he had some romantic secret affair outside their partnership she/he will get the idea to have a threesome around the 7th - 8th years of their relationship. How do I introduce my threesome idea to my mate? You have to talk about it with your spouse. But don't be pushy. You might push yourself out from your relationship. You have to be smart. During foreplay when your partner is turned on tell him/her your fantasies about sharing his/her body with the hot neighbor. Probably your partner will be very surprised. Next time tell him/her again. Repeat this several times. At one point your partner should produce their own fantasy. At this point your partners sexual activity will increase. It might never happen. Some people just don't want to do it. But if your partner will share his/her fantasy openly with you, then you can take a next step. What is the next step to having a threesome? You can talk openly to invite somebody into your relationship. Before you do so, both of you have to be sure, you can handle to see each other while having sexual intercourse with a third person. Maybe your spouse is going to have more fun than you will have, or your spouse is going to enjoy it more than you expected. And you wont be jealous. Today all kinds of nasty diseases are around. You do know what is STD and how to protect yourself. It is recommended to wear a condom. You understand that you will be naked, your body might touch other same gender person's body parts, or you will be touched by others. You know when two guys having an orgasm they can spray cum all over the place. Even if they wear condoms accident can happen. Having sex is a most enjoyable exercise. When people exercise they are going to sweat. When three people have sex, they are going to produce a lot of sweat. You understand if three or four person having sex in the same bed it can be messy. If you are not sure in any of the above, don't try it. Remember swinging is not for everyone. If your relationship is not strong enough, the threesome is going to destroy it. Strong love based relationships are going to get stronger. Let's find a third person for the first threesome. If you did not find competitive partner yet, we suggest you try to looking for a middle age (40 - 53) couple. They are still attractive and if they are healthy, their sex drive will still work very well. They can still go all night long. Also if you are younger, or first timer, they can show you the ropes. Of course you don't have to choose a middle age partner if you don't want to. You can start with a toy boy if you like. However if you start with a middle aged, more willing and pliable third partner, your first three way sex will be more enjoyable. You can play later on with toy boy... It is not the only way to go. Many others are available. According to experienced lifestyle couples opinion, the above way is the simplest and the less manipulative way. Let's get to the action You have found the person, that you would like to share your intimate moment with. You going to share your bed with that person, yourself and your spouse. You already met with this person or persons, you have talked with them and have developed some kind of chemistry. You have made a decision your going to have three way sex with them. When your little team arrives to the room. The best thing to do is darken the room a little if it is day time, or light same candles if it is night time. Try to create subdued lighting in the room. Put some soft romantic music on and get naked. A big mistake you can do is to start to talk again. You have already talked enough. Get naked and get into the bed The single gender person the one in the threesome who will be entertained by two of the opposite sex persons. For example in this case the single gender person is a lady. She should be between the two guys. Also she should make the guys comfortable with the fact that they going to please her at the same time. She should tell them they need to please her and she should tell them what is in her mind, what she likes and what she doesn't like. One of the guys is her long life partner or her husband, the other one is the new guy. She should pay the same attention to both guys. If she pays too much attention to the new guy, he might think too much about her and maybe her hubby will develop some jealousness. If she spends too much attention to her hubby, it might make the new guy uncomfortable. The guys have to perform at their best. It is very important, they are comfortable. They have to be comfortable with their own and the others naked bodies. They have to understand their body parts may touch and rub against each other, during this sexual encounter. When everyone understands what is going to happen, then it's time to play. Sexual encounters in threesomes One of the guys should keep her busy in the upper department, (neck, ear, and kissing). The other should concentrate to the lower departments, (stomach, belly button, thighs, and the genital area). Also they can perform oral sex on each other. It is the best if her hubby goes first to the lower department. He is supposed to know where her erogenous zones are, where to touch and how to turn her on. No intercourse yet. When everyone is exited enough, the guys should change positions. The new guy goes down and the hubby goes up. It is a proper etiquette in the first time threesome, first the new guy performs intercourse with her. He is down there, she is already turned on, and he can do it at any time. Her life long partner can talk with her, kiss her or even play with her boobs. Also it is a lot of men's fantasy is to watch their wife during love making with another man. If you are one of these guys, right now it is your time. You can watch her now. Threesome positions The best three some position is a doggy style. One guy performs intercourse on her. The other crawls under her and can play with her tits, or even can lick her clit. If she loves to give oral sex the other guy can go down on his knees, in front of her face, and she can perform oral sex on him. The other good threesome position for her, if she loves to perform oral sex is, one of the guy sits on the sofa or a lower chair with wide open legs. She goes down in front of him, on her knees. Her buttocks are up and has free access to any kind of sexual activity. Oral sex, intercourse or even anal sex. Not too many women loves anal penetration, but if she loves anal sex, she can have it now. It is recommended in threesomes to wear a condom. It will give protection to STD and also help not to make a big mess. Men have orgasms, spray cum all over, things can get really messy with out condoms. Not many men want to perform oral sex on women if somebody else cum is dripping from her vagina. After both men have performed intercourse with her, time to relax. Clean up a little. She should get dress but not all the way, just wear something really sexy, negligee, or see through baby doll, with out any panties. This will let the guys know, the game is not over yet. Have a little talk, a drink or two and go back to the subject again. Because it was the first threesome maybe it wasn't perfect for everyone. Also threesome sex is very erotic, maybe the guys didn't last long enough, but the second time will be much better. Everyone knows the rules, and everyone knows what needs to be done. Also both guys have already had intercourse with her and the second time they will spend much more time in taking her to orgasm heaven. To have a threesome you need a couple and the third person. A lot of couples don't like single guys. They say single guys are takers and not givers. They just care about themselves. Two women with a man (ffm) It is a man's dream. If you ever get there, you have to know what to do. The basic set up is the same as above. The man is in the middle. However now he has to delegate the two ladies. Today a lot of bi sexual ladies are around, and if his two partners are bi sexual, he should ask them to concentrate on him first. They can play with each other later on. If two women perform sex with a man, it is a proper etiquette his wife or partner have an intercourse with him first. The second lady can play with him, or just watch and when she is comfortable join in. In this combination he has to perform intercourse with two ladies. Also he has to give them an orgasm, or will not have a second change. Usually at first, because it is a very erotic, he will cum in no time at all. Just a little clean up and the game can go on. Both ladies have to work on him to get him hard again. It won't take to long. He is going to have intercourse with the new lady now. Because he is having sex with a strange lady and his wife or partner assisting, he will not last too long again. And ladies you have to get him hard again. If he is a healthy man, he can do it and if and when he becomes hard again he will stay hard probably for a long time. If the ladies are bi sexual or just curious it is very erotic to watch playing ladies together for a man. And he can participate also. It will make him very excited and horny. So ladies if you don’t mind a women's touch it is your time now. Once again the best position is a doggy style. If the ladies are bi sexual, one of the ladies can crawl under her and play with her tits or lick her clit and his cock in the same time. If both ladies are strictly straight the other lady can go behind him and suck his balls or just assist him by hand. Maybe play with his anus area. If the man gets too close to the no return point he should change partners. It is recommended in two women one man threesomes to change partners often. Also it is recommended to put a new condom on at every chance. It will take a few seconds only. Obviously your going to need more than a few condoms. Another very good threesome position He is on his back, one of the ladies riding on his cock, the other sits on his mouth. He gets screwed by one lady and performs oral sex on the other. The two women can be face to face to each other, and can hug kiss each other over him. Once again, pick a middle age experienced couple for a threesome. The 40 something guy has seen a pussy before other than his wife's, and had sex with others and not just his wife, and also had sex in the presence of his wife. He can bring more quality into the intercourse. And It is still a threesome. One guy entertains two ladies. The other guy sits in the corner and watches. Maybe lightly masturbating, getting ready. When the guy with the ladies is tired, he just rolls a condom on and takes the ladies over from the tired guy. Now the tired guy is watching and tries to get hard again. And it can go on and on... If you want to bring some kink into it, blindfold the ladies. Change partners fast after a few changes they will not know which guy is performing intercourse and which one gave them an orgasm or multiple orgasms. One more good thing if two couples are present. If there are three people, it might happen two of them concentrate too much on each other, leaving the third person out. It can hurt. If there are two couples, it can't happen. Middle age and younger couples combination create one more better thing. Forties women love to have sex with younger men. She can have it with both. On the other side the younger woman with the older man will find it out how much difference there is being screwed by an experienced man. Older women love younger men. Sound good? It was your first threesome. You might have had the greatest orgasm ever. It is a human nature to want to have more. You repeat the experience. But you have to watch yourself. You should end it, before the third person becomes too attached. Change partners, find somebody else or it might destroy your marriage. You still can maintain friendship with this person or ask him/her, to introduce you one of his/her friends. You can make your threesome very erotic. Use your fantasies. If you have a hot tub or the hotel have hot tubs, start the fore play in the hot tub. The good threesome needs good set up. You should combine the participant ages, and you can combine the participant races. Today, it easy to find newly emigrated people from different countries. You can have a interracial threesome, plus you might learn something from their sex culture. At last but definitely not least, if you want to be good lover, you have to take your time, you have to care about you partners and their feelings and you should not be pushy. Why would you try a threesome? Imagine you and your spouse. You might have been in a relationship for years, living together or maybe married, it makes no difference. One day you start to develop erotic fantasies, or your spouse does. These fantasies include you and someone else outside of your relationship... Now what? Should you tell this to your mate or shouldn't? If you do tell, how will your spouse respond to this? Remember how sex was when you and your spouse first got into the bed? It was great and satisfying every time. But since that first time, years past by and sex became routine. So what can you do? There are 3 ways to go. The first is the simplest and the safest. Pop a porn DVD into your DVD player, turn your fantasy on and start to masturbate. If you want to get kinky, do it in the presence of your spouse. The second is safe too: Educate yourself. Learn technique to take your sex to another level. Learn how to be a Sex God. There are millions of things that will bring the spark back in your bedroom. The third one is the best one and a dangerous one. You have to take a walk to the wild site! You have to introduce a third person or a couple into your spousal relationship. Well not like this, first you have to get familiar with this situation, after your partner has become familiar with it. How do you start? Well you have to talk a lot about it and then talk some more... And now you and you spouse have to find a willing person or couple. This is not to hard these days. There are millions of men and women looking for no commitment sex partners. Probably even in your neighborhood too. What'll happen if you met a great single guy or girl that you both really like? What about a great couple? What if you introduce them into your bed? What if you share with them your loving relationship? Would it spice up your sexual activity? I guess you will never know unless you try it... However there are a lot of things that you need to know, before you get down to the erotic action. You are not looking for a permanent relationship, your looking for a casual sex partner - to share - and to spice up your sex life. You and your spouse run the show. You ask your new friend to join in and when it's time to move on, you have to know when and how to kiss them good-bye. Because if your relationship is to survive there has to be an exit strategy to be agreed on before your even start. There are many reasons why a couple will invite another in to their relationship. For example boring routine spousal sex, differences in sex drive erotic fantasies, etc. The number one reason always was the excitement, the feeling of freedom in the spousal relationship and extra intensity of the sex. Almost every person who tried it felt like a teenager again... Is it worth you trying it? You decide......