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7 Steps to Glorious Oral Sex Today's Topic: 7 Steps to Glorious Oral Sex 1. It's the attitude, baby! If the performing partner does not have the right attitude (or intentions) from the get go, his/ her lover will know it. Only do the deed if you genuinely want to please your beloved. No faking, ladies! 2. Foreplay – It warrant mentioning repeatly. Foreplay, foreplay, foreplay. I don't suggest watching the clock,but aim for at least 15 minutes of pre-game action. I've read numerous times that it takes a woman 15 minutes to catch up to the man's arousal. 3. Preferences – This will take some experimentation, but that's where the fun comes in (no pun intended). Learn what excites your partner – some women prefer having their clitoris lightly kissed or even sucked. However, some cannot take the direct contact of the latter, so proceed with caution. Don't go biting the clit – read your lover's body language and encourage communication. (Ladies, do your part and let us know what's pleasing you!) 4. It's all in the technique – Try flicking your tongue back and forth over the clit in a horizontal fashion. Start slowly and increase the speed. (Again, listen to her body language.) 5. Simulate penetration – While licking her clitoris, try pene- trating her vagina with your finger(s). Or, mix things up by licking the clit and then putting your tongue in the vagina and vice versa. 6. Keep it lubricated! I cannot stress this enough. You MUST keep the area lubricated to make it more pleasurable. Strok- ing the penis with a dry hand doesn't feel as good as with lubrication. Same thing here. 7. Don't forget the labia! When a woman becomes aroused, her labia engorge with blood and also become very sensitive. Try gently stroking or licking the area. Just don't forget it!