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Women & Men Online I decided to write this after having a conversation with a group of men today 11.7.06. After the conversation was over I was left to re think the way I talk to people online. Have I been a victim to this behavior and didn’t even know. I just thought I was having casual chat and making friends, after all that’s what Friends List means right? According to the men Women are overly excited when a man shows some interest especially the ones that have been alone for awhile. According to the guys Big turn off for men, as women tend to get possessive leaving ten emails for one day. One guy showed me this and all he did was delete them and the emails kept coming. The emails reminded me of the movie FATAL ATTRACTION. For awhile I felt like dam have I been doing this, I know I send emails but have I been sending too many? The men I spoke to are married who have conversations with single women online. They never ever say that they are married, according to them women are so lonely and eager to find a partner that she makes it easy for guys to tell her what she wants to hear thus she believes and soon is a victim of Married men trying to see if THEY STILL GOT WHAT IT TAKES. Women who fall ease are easily hurt. My motto never let your guard down it pays to keep it up. They said they have tried this on several occasions one admitted he told the woman yes he was married but then she was so caught up in the way he showed her attention that she out right said ok she don’t care she still wanted to meet with him. Is it that the species we call women are so pathetic and naive we think men are seriously interested in us. Notice how we easily tell them practically everything about us and they are still a mystery. One guy said to me this is a FAULT of women, we never leave anything mysterious about us thus having the guy come back for more we just blurt it all out and then, after a week or so the woman wonders why the guy has lost interest. There is nothing more to talk about she has told him all. I admit I have done this and now I have mixed feeling whether I should continue to talk. Seriously I don’t mind saying I have been there as my mistake is another woman’s stepping stone. I will add the interest has not been lost as yet but I do tend to talk a lot, if I find the person interesting. I then argued that most women see friendship differently and think that by talking she is developing a friend she is not necessarily thinking about walking down the alter or getting into be it’s just FRIENDS. Now what have I concluded by this: Women are too emotional whether in person or over the net. Another major flaw women tend to get upset when the men don’t responded to emails getting all bent out of shape even cursing. If this sounds like you look into it and recognize and practice what the men do. Leave the emotions out of it and just talk about the moon in the sky how lucky we are we have a moon LOL. I am serious ladies a lot of us too jumpy when the men come a calling, slow you roll and just watch it unfold if you go too hasty you will miss out on the important things. Also and the most important of all MEN ONLINE HAVE 20 OTHER WOMEN TALKING TO DON’T THINK ITS ONLY YOU, SEE THEIR FRIENDS LIST OK TAKE NOTICE THEY GET A LOT OF MAILS SO BE PATIENT THEY WILL EVENTUALLY RESPOND OR MAYBE NOT LOL.