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Different Strokes or no Strokes for some Folks There are some of us that are adamant about No Sex Before Marriage while some don't want No Surprises come honeymoon night so they test the waters before hand. Does this make the non-strokers better than the strokers? For some they hold out until they meet the love of their life, first person to ever kiss them. They see this person as everything till death do we part. Eg. Jessica Simpson and Nick Lashey, where are they today in matrimonial blist? Nope Divorced. Here's an observation, the man wants sex so bad he eagerly walks the woman down the aisle to satisfy that bruning desire and tourcher he been going through. Now both of them on the honeymoon will either come out going DAM that was great or shit what the @*#*#% I just got stuck with. Marriage before sex you are blinded to what the other person is sexually capable of and if they are coming up too short. So now your stuck, miserable, thus making the other person feel like crap then shortly after here comes the cheating then divorce. Wouldn't it had been better to find out before they went through the whole "I Do Till Death"? This is every day life happenings and you don't have to be rich or poor. I am not writing this to tell women/men they should test every water that comes their way or brake from their believes/traditions, read with understanding, I am just looking at the whole picture and trying to pick sense out of nonsense. Lets look at it from a Dildo verses Man view. You the woman walk into a XXX store, you purchase a Dildo any size, color or shape the possiblities are endless. With much anticipation you take it home and unwrap it put in battery turn it on BRAPS!!! its a MALFUNCTION CATASTROPHE so you simply take the receipt and the Dildo back to the store and replace it for one that will give you maximum proformance and satisfaction. Now you find a man drag him down the aisle as most women tell the men NO SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE so now the fellow has to condition his mind that to get the little sex him have to wed. Come honeymoon night instead of batteries you give him edible negligee, birthday suit, whipped cream/bannasplit whatever your fantasy, low and behold him "POP DUNG". What do you do grab the marriage certificate and drag his ass back to the church for another? I always say sex is an art you can learn it but if you have someone that is not willing to learn and try new things, then sex is dead = dead relationship. I for one on my honeymoon night shouldn't be singing "BABE YOU REALLY DONE AREADY YOU MEAN FI TELL ME SAY YOU REALLY STOP AREADY? THE STEAM FISH INA YOU BACK DONE AREADY? HOW YOU TELL ME SAY YOU READY YOU NO READY!! HOW JUMP ON JUS SO SO SO? NO NIBBLE BREAST JUST SO SO SO? NO LITTLE FEEL UP JUS SO SO SO? STOP!!!! COME OFF DON'T WASTE ME TIME.