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Eh-eehhh!! Love is a beautiful thing.. Ma last post ("Rich wyte lady") was bit negative an ungreatful, bit judgemental an ignorant maybe? Might it be dat ah jus goin 4 de wrong set a guys? Hmm.. To mek it up, ah thought dis tyme to try out sumpm new.. 

An so ah went to dis concert (Cutty Ranx) wid a open mind. Ah wasnt drinkin.. ah was on ma best behaviour (it was absolutely NOT my fault dat dis guy, wey ah dont even kno, have never seen before in meh life, started dissin me when ah didn wan fe let he feel mi up, an so ah had to knock he down (thus a different story rite dey, tho)).. well, basically ah was dey enjoyin maself wid meh girls.. An dis nice guy came on to mi. He was jus de rite hight, was lookin fly, an wid de brightes teeth an de most greatest smile uno coul imagine. An de best of it all, he was actin like such a gentleman an bein suspichiously conciderate. An soo sweet!! After de concert done, he asked mi to come outside for a chat.. An ah said "ok". We talk for a while, an he ask 4 ma nmbr. Out of old habbit, ah tell he ah aint givin out ma nmbr, but ah would take his..an sen he a text sum tyme.. (wich couple days later ah did).

De first date: Went magnifically(is dat a word?) great!! We had oh so much to talk about, an we jus hit it off! We got along so well! After sittin dere talkin over a coffee for abt three or four hrs, he walked mi home an left mi by my doorstep.

De secon date: Was so much fun!! We went out a friday, to a club. An we enjoyed ourselves to de max, dancin an gettin on. An after party done, we went an grab a bite near by de club.. He had "lost" his last bus home, an since he lives far from town, ah invited he home to my place, so he didn have to spend a fortune on a taxi.. (he had already spent nuff cash thru'out de nite). At my place, we put on a movie an fall asleep in de middle of it.. Nutten else happen..

From dis point we start seeing each oder more often. 

Like one day he came over for a movie at my place..We ordered sum chineese.. an he brought sum movies. In de middle of de movie (ah aint rememba wich movie) we start feelin up one anoder, an kissin an ting..He so gentle an sweet an nice! I now on top a he, an he want to mek it to de next level.. He want to tek it into de bedroom. I den say ah aint ready 4 dat yet, wich he is totally ok wid. De ting is.. ah aint relly feelin dis boy.. dis sum sugar sweet lovey doovey hunney-bunny bullsh***! Wot ah SHOULD of feel was probably sumetin like; "Oh my Lord! Dis guy is jus perrfec!!.."

.... but is he perfec for mi? Dis guy is jus too nice, wee? Hmm..

As tyme goes on, we start seeing each oder more rapidly.. de guy basically start hangin out at ma place, an it reach a point wey he aint even askin me, but seems he tekin it for granted.. an ah start get annoyed.. rell annoyed.. we still aint do IT yet, ah only kno de guy for a couple weeks, an ah aint feelin too rite abt wots goin on.. dis is jus too much!! A need sum space, yow!! An de guy start get annoyed too, caw it aint seem like ah want he no more. An dats a fact! Ah mean; tek a hint, man!!! Aint u see ah get choked?? An de guy jus too nice!! No action, no rudeness, jus niceness...24/7.. At dis point, ah start gettin fed up.. an turn out a total bitch on he.. he still doe tek de point.. until one day ah tell he str8; "YAW!!! GET DE MUDDAH**** OUTA MEH FRIGGIN FACE; BWOI!!! " Wich to dis he replies in a most controlled voice; "you dont need to be so rued, sweety, u can tell me in a decent way. But its ok, hunney, now i get to see your bad side too". An he smiles to mi in a most ovastandin manner. An he still aint lef mi de **** alone.. Lard!! How did dis eva happen?? Ah feel to jus knock de guy down, yeh...?

Lard!! Ah cant talk bout dis no more, ppl, ah get too vex abt de whole situation. De question is: is dey relly noone out dey wey have a certain amount of ruedness in he an still treat a lady wid sum decensy an respect? Ah mean, ah need a bad boy, as much as ah need one wey ah coul confide in an trust. One wey show mi de same amount of respec as ah show he.. An one wey ah coul lean on , an strong enuff to carry me as ah carry de love ah have for he.. One wey is buff enuff to stand up for heself AND mi. An one fe speak he mind an not back out of a arguement betwean de two a we, jus to avoid certain unconvinience..

I found mr. Right, ppl!! An let mi tell yuh! He NICE!!! NICE, NICE, NICE!!! He soo NICE, ah aint want he no more.. Yall coul have he.. He aint for mi..

One love.. ppl.

Im out..