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World Of Difference.......

Too old to be forgotten, too young to remember......

Why fight, then break up, then have make up sex and fight again.......

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Divine Intervention...

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TODAY IS A VERY SAD DAY FOR ME .....

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After the love is gone.... Current mood: enthralled Category: just thnking out loud Romance and Relationships Call me 'old fashioned' but universally speaking, i have to learn from the masters and godfathers of love. No love is lost until its been 'wrongfully accused' with non-evidential reason. I am pertaining to the fact that you are in a relationship and time and time and time again you are put to the test to show or to prove how 'deep is your love' for that person. I, on the other hand, find it hard to believe why should someone do that and at the same time hurt the person loves them. I do believe also in love and i have been hurt so many times its not funny. The reality is, you are in a relationship, filled with everlasting compromises, open communications and most of all, commitment. And then, "boom!" an unexplained situation occurs where you are not what the person use to think that you are. That you have been so callous, so neglectful, so canniving, and you say to yourself, "What did i do now?" U are been the good one making all the wrong choices, you have become in his//her eyes, the one who is not treating him/her right, and he/she always finding fault with you.....personal problems....i do think so.... My 'two cents' in this arguement is DON'T BLAME THE ONE U LOVE WHEN THINGS ARE GOING BAD FOR U....If the one you love really loves you and u are not treating them right, then they will leave you and go to someone who will really appreciate them. The long and short of this blog is simple..all that attitude isn't necessary, if u don't want the person to be around u anymore and u are not contented with that person who is been committed to you and would 'bust' his butt for you, don't have them around as a 'need and want' ok? Just be a mature individual and let them go. Don't be a negative thinker and say, "To hell with him/her, i am going to take what i can from this until he/she becomes frustrated and then he/she will leave me". The more this happens, is the more concerned i am for those in a relationship and they continue to use and abuse it all. They are dark secrets, mind games and most of all indiscreet rendevous with a 'significant' other.....U must be asking, "how i know this?" well the answer is i have seen it, lived it, and would love for those who are getting in a relationship, to know the 'pros and cons' of a relationship..... If anyone have anything to add, link me and let me know your thoughts....Sometimes those who are committed in a relationship deserves a better way of being in it and are to willing to sacrifice and compromise to make it work.......

I was browsing on a website this mornng and i came across some pictures of women that unexpectedly cause me to look at them in a whole new different prospective. I was so disappointed to see how some of these women had their beauty languished on the website and as to make the matter worse, they didnt even care who would view their profile as long as they are there. My problem with some of these women is simple, why would you exploit yourselves in this manner to draw the opposite or similiar sex to you and you don't know a thing about relationships. Relationships should not be about playing games or playing the field, but to know the person andne and sharing common interests. There are some women right now in my society that i see everyday, ever beautiful, quite the charmer and applying negative thinking of this 'don't care attitude' of who they become involve with as long as they are noticed. Why would you do that, surely you are not a scientist experimenting with people's emotions and certainly u shouldn't look to those with 'samaritan' qualities to hurt them that way as 'lab rats'. Do you know what love is? Don't ever think you could be the one who is played by your own doings? Surely you look attractive, and dressing to impress is the motive for you, but know this, looks, charm, beauty and possessing monetary notes to buy expensive things doesn't make you a woman. Surely you may have your independence as a woman, but are you really a genuine woman? In the end, it is your character that makes you a woman and that's what some of us men look for in a real woman, not a woman who thinks she's better than anyone else or a woman who feels no remorse if she's already in a relationship, to have another one, it just ain't right and you know it!...

In times like these when there is a lot of negativity coming from those who do not care about life, we have to be cautious of who we confide in. The reason for such a statement stems from the fact that people on a whole must remember that hurting other people's feelings is just as worse as their's been hurt too. What good is it for you as an individual with a heart of stone, lacking ambitions, and sense of betrayal, to be in a mode of destruction and devastation of the human spirit? Who gives you the right to disrupt the balance of one's morality by playing God? God doesn't even do such things, then that means you are working for a worser evil of its kind then. I have met people who told me what it's like to be tormented, tortured, and disrespected to There are some with a pure heart that will assist the ones they love only to have their humility been turn around and stabbed in the back. Those type of people are only looking a reason to feel secure, to feel wanted, to feel as if they don't give a donkey's butt who's helping them. So my advice to those who do such an audacious act to be careful. What goes around comes around. Don't go burning your bridges down because the bridge you burn today, you will need it someday to go back across. You will say, 'Yeah there's is always another bridge to cross', but dont expect it to the same bridge you'll be crossing to achieve such a feat to gain rewards of trust and freedom. Not all apples on the tree are the same, they may come from the same tree but they're simply not the same.........

This is based on the fact that we live in a world where people who have bad intentions what they will do to destroy those who are of a good and purce and clean heart......I hope you will read these chapters for inspiration and comfort..... Psalm 35 Plead my cause, O LORD, with them that strive with me: fight against them that fight against me. Take hold of shield and buckler, and stand up for mine help. Draw out also the spear, and stop the way against them that persecute me: say unto my soul, I am thy salvation. Let them be confounded and put to shame that seek after my soul: let them be turned back and brought to confusion that devise my hurt. Let them be as chaff before the wind: and let the angel of the LORD chase them. Let their way be dark and slippery: and let the angel of the LORD persecute them. For without cause have they hid for me their net in a pit, which without cause they have digged for my soul. Let destruction come upon him at unawares; and let his net that he hath hid catch himself: into that very destruction let him fall. And my soul shall be joyful in the LORD: it shall rejoice in his salvation. All my bones shall say, LORD, who is like unto thee, which deliverest the poor from him that is too strong for him, yea, the poor and the needy from him that spoileth him? False witnesses did rise up; they laid to my charge things that I knew not. They rewarded me evil for good to the spoiling of my soul. But as for me, when they were sick, my clothing was sackcloth: I humbled my soul with fasting; and my prayer returned into mine own bosom. I behaved myself as though he had been my friend or brother: I bowed down heavily, as one that mourneth for his mother. But in mine adversity they rejoiced, and gathered themselves together: yea, the abjects gathered themselves together against me, and I knew it not; they did tear me, and ceased not: With hypocritical mockers in feasts, they gnashed upon me with their teeth. Lord, how long wilt thou look on? rescue my soul from their destructions, my darling from the lions. I will give thee thanks in the great congregation: I will praise thee among much people. Let not them that are mine enemies wrongfully rejoice over me: neither let them wink with the eye that hate me without a cause. For they speak not peace: but they devise deceitful matters against them that are quiet in the land. Yea, they opened their mouth wide against me, and said, Aha, aha, our eye hath seen it. This thou hast seen, O LORD: keep not silence: O Lord, be not far from me. Stir up thyself, and awake to my judgment, even unto my cause, my God and my Lord. Judge me, O LORD my God, according to thy righteousness; and let them not rejoice over me. Let them not say in their hearts, Ah, so would we have it: let them not say, We have swallowed him up. Let them be ashamed and brought to confusion together that rejoice at mine hurt: let them be clothed with shame and dishonour that magnify themselves against me. Let them shout for joy, and be glad, that favour my righteous cause: yea, let them say continually, Let the LORD be magnified, which hath pleasure in the prosperity of his servant. And my tongue shall speak of thy righteousness and of thy praise all the day long. HAVE A GREAT DAY AND PEACE BE WITH YOU ALL FOR NOW AND FOREVER MORE......AMEN.......