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what happen to the old fashion way of dating, courtship, and marriage...sad to say that it's long gone.... today men see women as a piece of meat, a dragon to be slain while adding another notch on his belt, fathering many, and supporting none not realizing the damage he's doing to a fickle heart, women hurt hardest... for her to give her heart to someone,then to have it broken by someone she loved.. but the mind set today is not to show it. there was a time when guys had to worry about competition from other guys..today he has to worry about competition from other men and women...why you ask... the number one reason most often given by women...I've been hurt to many times by guys women on the other hand play a different game...she basically know from day one who she wants and who she wants to be with.....oh she may go out with you to take the free lunches and dinners, or wherever you may go but when you're not the one....watch the excuses when things start getting close when a woman loves a man, she basically will do anything for him within reason.. while a man will be there for her, not just physically, pay a bill or 2 help out in the house, or with the kids....you get the point don't be afraid to test a potential lover on this we all hate to be alone, many times a person will pretend to love you while waiting for something better to come along...just to have a booty call whenever...then when he or she wants to be free.... arguments happen for no reason.. then watch the excuses.....what they are looking to do is get rid of you... we need to be honest with ourselves first then we need to be honest with all others grow up folks.... lets treat each other with respect