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The statistics of failed, dysfunctional marriages, ending in divorce, are now in the red and off the charts, even in the churches today, globally. What's going on?, who has the answer?, who can "you" trust with your heart and your sanity completely,..read on, you will be shocked with the ultimate, authentic, and only true answer.

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I told her I was through with her. I told her to go. But she just sticks to me like glue and wont leave, why I don't know.Year after year,month after month, day after day, this she demon haunts and taunts me, and try as I may, she is like a mystery, like this invisible force so strong, that I cannot flee. Ohh the pain, the pain, the mental, psycological, and emotional pain, makes even the sunniest days seem to fill with dark stink rain. I am obviously her eternal obsession, this evil demonic girlfriend of mine called depression....

Believe it or not some couples actually have success with the first type of love, however this is not the norm, as this type of love still remains highly unstable and weak. The second type of love however comes highly recomended by marriage counsellors and professionals as the success rate of this second type of love is very high, providing however that it is mixed with unconditional honesty as stated in my first blog, without which that couple will have an indefinite time of growing untill they can be honest enough with each other to trust each other and get married. Growing in love without the honesty is left to the immature, dishonest and inexperienced couples who are doomed to total failure in any of the three types of love. The last and final type of love now is for the pros. This last type of love, "A decission to love" is only for the mature, honest and experienced couples, who have found themselves, know themselves, have stopped running around and are ready to make a commitment to each other.A decision to love means that both couples can honestly look eachother in the eyes and say " As of this day I have decided to love you and you only. I have decided on this day never to lie to you, cheat on you or abuse you in any way. I have decided from this day to forsake all other women/men and love you only. I have decided to marry you and stay married to you, till death(old age preferable) do us part. Finally there is a way that you can have both (1)love at first sight and (2)growing in love, work as good as (3)A DECISION TO LOVE. This is simple by injecting them both with a heavy dose of 1,000% of pure, enriched,undiluted, and unconditional H O N E S T Y. In life you may not succeed in being honest with every one, but you must master the art of being honest with your spouse...no excuses....