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Today...

Well after heralding the New Year with what was almost a little more than half my capacity to see. I have not yet made any firm resolutions neither do I see the need to do as such.Whatever objectives I've had before i'm trying to finish upon now and whatever goals i have yet to attain remain on the list .. so agreeably I now pick up where i left off...

Today ...i signed on to vibesconnect.com as i usually do everyday (this part reminds me of "I am Legend").. I'm here for over an hour trying to catch or choose somone to my liking to have an intelligent light humorous non judgemental chat with. However as i have come to learn it is more difficult to find some one to achieve certain criteria fulfillment who isn't yet spoken for, in a relationship or just isnt oriented toward those of my sex.

So I go looking, beauty (desired but not a detrimental requirement), intelligence (I go looking for spelling and grammar errors, as well as blogs if available), personality ( u can tell by some of the pics and the profile), and i try and field some with all and them some with none at all. The objective being.. not everyone is perfect and maybe in their imperfection lies a gem of a woman.

Its not that I'm not seeing someone right now. I've been in more drama than i would like to think of for the past year. I need a break from it all.I'm beginning to realize that what we sometimes most want, isn't what we need. I have tried in the past to shed my friends to make a deteriorating relationship even better , all to my detriment. However it is equally as hard even when justified to say to that significant other that you WON'T be scuttling your friends.

I look forward to a less hectic and dramatic year. One in which that if if in not even having a partner I'll have many truthful frank and open friends who continue always to look after my best interest even though at times I might claim to know best. Their counsel and companionship is necessary to my survival and i love and respect each one for carrying my burdens, kindling my hopes, watching my back, defending my good name and defending my integrity and virtue in my absence.

To you all who I have loved and appreciated so dearly... and to those who will come ...

Have a beautiful, blessed, fulfilling, safe , hopeful and prosperous NEW YEAR