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Well I'm still at it to this point .. I have managed to find one or two really nice young ladies who keep up the correspondence regularly.Maybe not on a daily basis but enough to let you know that they do consider u a friend...

There are however a couple of other observations that i have taken note of and which some folks (guys&girls) may find useful...

so here goes ... my own personal FYI .. remember these are MY opinions....yours may differ but tellme if I've struck a note.

VIBESCONNECT is not a fast track to having a loving comitted realtionship. It is a tool that facilitates introduction to a person of your choice and chosen gender who may or may not satisfy certain criteria you have in mind. Bear in mind thoough that there are those who don't subscribe to the well intentione pupose of a social network. They ay be curious as well as devious in their purpose.i have no doubt that quite a few person have been misled by profiles that that profess one thing but in meeting the person it is the absolute opposite. Some people will never tell the truth no matter what forum you put them in and further to that will not exhibit themselves for their lives to be shared but rather for themselves to satisfied by ONLY taking whatever you have to share.

LADIES, if you put a SEXY picture of u on ur profile that borders on being raunchy or naughty .. you are goign to get lewd and sexual advances. If you put something like "i love sex" or "I love to mastrubate" then .. you're going to get sexual advances and of course A LOT OF THEM. There are lonely guys in here, me being one of them, but added to that there are HORNY male toads as well as some FEMALE ones..if it isnt what you're looking for don't set yourself up that way. If it IS what you are looking for .. may i direct your attention to SMUTVIBES.COM.. very explicit and you can have all your carnal dreams come true (online).

DON'T JUDGE .... If someone confides in you after meeting you then it is a mutual agreement to be friends. Its not an instant pass to be critical of their lives and what they have done.Be curious..YES.. find out why.. find out about that person .. if it suits you.. offer advice if you can.. take soem in humility....but be a TRUE FRIEND...FIRST.

For myself, I have been judged a few times as I have been scoffed at mainly for one or several reasons. it just tells me that at times the objective is not to be my friend but to rather assess me for whatever further plans you may had in mind by winning over my confidentiality. While quite effective at times...it is cruel in nature.. you may just meet and betray a friend inside of one meeting if not by a week.

Nyways we all have our reasons  for being here .. they differ.I can't hold a book of morality over anyone's head. For myself i have selected pretty women as well as not so pretty, provocative as well as blatantly sexless, expressive as well those unable to put proper syntax together.it doesnt mirror who i want in real life but its a start to knowing someone from a different perspective and finding out what true qualities lie in the way you are able to communicate your thoughts and your feelings.