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i'm in awe of the fact that what is abnormal has become the norm... in relationships for example...a woman's cry is i want a good man...or all the good ones are taken…hmmm as I think about these statements that I’ve heard some females say on a regular basis... I listen I cant help but wonder if a good man came around would you really be ready…why is that the question that I pose u may ask…let's take a look at some of our patterns as women... we really don’t like to be alone or feel lonely...so we go and get in various situations...i.e. settling for what is less than what we are worth…we jump into a relationship without really knowing our partner fully…we equate good looks and great sex with love…now out of these situations come conflict of your original standards and morals…you allowed different entities into your life which affected your thoughts, viewpoints and even your beliefs…therefore losing a part of yourself every time you were in a relationship that you knew from the start really wasn’t going to benefit you in the long run… it’s like this…the abnormal…he’s with you when he can be with you due to the fact that he has a situation (another woman)…but when he is with you…you are all that matters…he lavish you with good pipe work…takes you places you’ve never been before…speaks lyrics that makes your heart beat twice whenever you hear his voice…but how often is that…his time with you is rushed/limited due to his current issue…yes he may spend the night every once in a while but he’s not consistent…yes the dick may be good but at what cost…he’s laying pipe with her too…then you say those words “but he loves me”…if he loves you…you would be his “one and only”…not the “only one that gives him loving like this”…if he loves you…he wouldn’t yearn, want or desire to touch another cause you are his all in all…yet you find more reasons/excuses on why you should be with him…due to the fact that we yearn for the comfort of a man…and you’ve allow this abnormality to become your normal way of being in love the norm would be to know your worth and don’t settle for less…know that you are a rear gem…you are priceless…with all that you’ve acquired through the years via the school of life…you should respect yourself first…believe in what you are capable of…love yourself…cause if you love yourself you wouldn’t allow anyone to treat you less…know when to walk away and don’t continue to hold on to something that’s not edifying you because you hate feeling lonely… these are just my thoughts…based on experiences of those I know and love…bless