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WHO'S THE MAN [ back to blog's page] A WOMAN'S CRY FOR CHANGE WHO'S THE MAN No question she made her choices and she accumulates her responsibilities, but why should you subjugate her to further humiliation. Telling her she has to get on her knees or on her back to get twenty dollars to buy her kids something to eat. I know some of you right now are having the nerve to say you have not done that or you would never do that. I say this to you; you're just as much culpable. You saw her needs and because she's not the one you lay next to at night. You ignore her saying she's not my wife or they're not my kids or they're not my responsibilities. Have you ever conjure the thought that if you reach out to her, helping her to realize the mistake she's making perhaps things would be different with her. Who knows, possibly because of your generosity she might take the time out to get to know you better and instead of you subjugating her to your own will. She'll be more than willing to capitulate to your ingenuous standards. To the men who thinks a woman has to be on her back for him to see her need. This is what I have to say to you. You say you're a man but because she didn't let you kiss her on the first date, you don't want to be bothered. You said you're a man, and being very knowable of her current situation. Being with two kids and without a job and because you asked her for sex and she says no, you refuse to buy her something to eat. You said you're a man, but whenever you see her, the only thing you think about is what's between her legs. You said you're a man of dignity and integrity, but you put your hands on her one more time and we won't be waiting for the police. You said you're a man, but as soon as she turns her back every whore from the neighborhood is in her bed. You said you're a man, but when it comes time to settle an argument, all you want to do is to forget about it. You said you're a man, but instead of loving the mother of your kids. You criticize her for gaining a few pounds. You said you're a man of your word, but your word has been proven worthless. You said you're a man, but spending time with her doing the things she wants to do is never on your agenda. You said you're a man, but she's always home alone, while you're out with the boys, no not your sons I'm talking about the rest of the so called men who thinks like you do. You said you're a man, but whenever she finally get you to go somewhere with her, she ends up regretting it, because of the way you pay more attention to every skirt tail that passes. You said you're a man, but you think it's beneath you to call and say I love you every now and then. You said you're a man, but you still think that making her breakfast and helping with the kids is not a man's job, but then again you're right, because it's not a job, it's his responsibility. You said you're a man, so why is it always her turn to do the dishes. You said you're a man, but you left her with your unborn child, because you didn't want your responsibilities. You said you're a man, but going to the store and buying her female products is too feminine for you. You said you're a man, but if she was to have her time of the month and was unable to help herself, you would prefer to call the neighbor's wife to help her. You said you're a man, but still you flirt with all her friends even when she's there. You said you're a man, but doing her laundry, yes even her personal Items, the very one you like to see her wear. You wouldn't dear touch them now. You said you're a man, but she's not able to relate her inner most thoughts to you. You said you're a man, but as soon as she capitulates to you, you used it as an opportunity to subjugate her to your own standards. You said you're a man, but the only way for a woman to get anything from you is when she lays on her back. You said you're a man, but you never one day take the kids and try to experience what it is to be a mother. You said you're a man, but your dinner better be there when you get home or else, or else what boy. You said you're a man, oh yea, the man of the house. That's because she's a female and your son is too young to take over from his mother doing everything, while you sit and watch TV. You said you're a man, but as soon as you found out she have kids you lost interest in her. You said you're a man, but when she told you she wanted to wait until marriage before having sex, you made her felt like the dog you are. You said you are a man, but paying her rent without her given into your sexual demands, is a problem. You said you're a man, What! Boy please. A man would never, never dishonor a woman's nubility; instead he would be ready to set her on a pedestal and love her endlessly. HELP SPREAD THE WORD TO MEN AND WOMEN SEND ME YOUR EMAIL ADD AND I'LL SEND IT TO YOU SO YOU CAN START A CHAIN OR COPY AND POST ON YOUR BULLETIN....