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Well....I do think some guys are afraid to comitte, but when they do they often turn on you, they want to be more controlling and then thing might not just work out.

CHICA111....You hit the nail on the head when you siad this "After being in relationships and having heartbreaks" If both parties go through heartbreaks then YES!! anybody would be afraid to commit right away because in the back of there minds they can't help but remember the painful lessons they learnt from previous relationships. Thus causing them to be hesitant to commit. Thats just another way to look at it.

Yes my friend..it all depends on the choice each party makes. If you make a choice to be committed no one in this world can change your mind. Now this does not mean that both parties WOULD be committed. However, the quest for true love and committment would be a never ending search for some and for others...they have found what they are looking for. As you said...you can only speak for yourself and so can I. After being in relationships and having heartbreaks..one tends to after all of that...still find love and is able to committ to it and have the other party committ to them also. PEACE

Here's my 2 pennies on this topic. No I don't think that guys are afraid to commit, because once they think they have found the right woman for them they will stop at nothing to commit to her. Problem is once committed can they stay comitted. To me guys just think the grass is always greener on the other side and in most cases its not, thus causing the current relationship they are in to brake down. So I agree the key word in your blog is CHOICE we all make choices that will ultimately bring about the good or bad in our lives.