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i'm all for free sex. why wait around to fall in love ?

actually you would be kidding yourself if you thought ppl were having sex for committal purposes such as love...as for the family unit that has been eroding along with our morals... I have heard that most ppl, women especially, know if they are going to have sex with a particular person yet dont act on these feelings if there arent any other traits binding them together..some underlying reason other than the sex. All this is funny because once both parties engage in sex the allure begins to fade...as if sex was the sole purpose. Why not just sex and forget about the rest? How long have your relationships been lasting anyhow?

Just think about this... after sex then what? Isn't it good to be able to connect and communicate with that person after sex? I believe the good sex can be had without any strings attached but great sex is achieved when you and that person are connected by love. If we teach the world sex without commitment or consequence is ok all the time wht then happens to the family unit, our commuinties, and our society. Isn't the world we live in filled with enough lawlessness and debauchery? What is wrong with sex meaning something? There are much worst things that can go wrong from meaningless unprotected sex than diseases or an unplanned pregnancy....what about the lose of self-respect and wear & tear on your moral makeup.

Sex can be good and bad. Sex is good when the person you are with is attractive to the other person and vice versa, and also mentally. Some people go for one night stands just to get a quick nut or just for some attention that they didn't get in a while no matter who they are with at that moment, and the person that they are choosing to have sex with understands the other person. There are no strings attatched. Then you have some people who has the understand of just being fucking friends. Basically, they are friends, they hang out, no romantic feelings involved, except that they have sex, once in a while and thats as far as it goes. It depends on what you are comfortable with and the person you are having sex with. As long as the man has a condom on and the female is on birthcontrol or has control over their actions while having sex, then their won't be any regrets, like catching an STD, AIDS, or having a baby that wasn't planned.