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I met this BoBo Shanti fellah-he just radiated from his smile, his whole personality. i didn't readily go out with him because i was busy with my studies, however he was so keen on me, so sincere and so attentive that i decided to give a relationship a try. I had to move from where i was living because of situations beyond my control and it turned out that he was moving as well. he decided he would move with me and we would split a 2 bedroom apt. things were great at first then all of a sudden, Mr wanted me to change my eating habits, my clothing style, wanted me to keep my hair covered and a bunch of other stuff over night,that i found didn't make sense. change takes time-who can wake up 1 day and just adopt a new lifestyle w/o first taking baby-steps? but no, i needed to do these things and drastically. when i refused to be forced into doing things i didn't understand, he started acting up-carrying on with relationships behind my back, telling me that he was gonna be leaving.....and so forth. Now i need to get an insight into the bobo relationships...

i was down and ready to do anything for him, but he was too bust two-timing with an ex. So after i had a confrontation with the s'posed ex i cut my losses and moved on with my life, no longer needing or wanting to feel loved by him. then he kept calling, wanting to come by to "see" me. always coming with long, empty arms- with nothing to offer. so i cut that ssob off, and what happens? he keeps hounding me down-telling me i am the one for him. ha that's a laugh-would any sensible person go back with this loser?...