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I met this BoBo Shanti fellah-he just radiated from his smile, his whole personality. i didn't readily go out with him because i was busy with my studies, however he was so keen on me, so sincere and so attentive that i decided to give a relationship a try. I had to move from where i was living because of situations beyond my control and it turned out that he was moving as well. he decided he would move with me and we would split a 2 bedroom apt. things were great at first then all of a sudden, Mr wanted me to change my eating habits, my clothing style, wanted me to keep my hair covered and a bunch of other stuff over night,that i found didn't make sense. change takes time-who can wake up 1 day and just adopt a new lifestyle w/o first taking baby-steps? but no, i needed to do these things and drastically. when i refused to be forced into doing things i didn't understand, he started acting up-carrying on with relationships behind my back, telling me that he was gonna be leaving.....and so forth. Now i need to get an insight into the bobo relationships