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Posted on Friday, September 21 2007 at 01:01 pm
Everyone knows that all relationships take work, especially lifelong partnerships. So why is it so damn hard, anyways i have some ideas that should help, i think.
Make time for each other... it's imperative that partners make time for each intimacy and communication. Putting it off only creates an unseen barrier.. Trust me i know Give each other space... it's may seem nice to do everything together, but for the love of God, if i love football and u like the ballet, don't force anything on each other. Find a friend who likes the ballet ang go with them and let me chill with the boys and bring beer. This way we both retain our individuality and get some time apart. Forgive where possible...we all make mistakes and people will get hurt, whether it is intentional or not..Acknowledge the mistake, try to understand why it happened, discuss it and then move on. Expect the unexpected...Ocassionally talk about how the two of you would respond to major changes, such relocating for work, changing careers, serious illness, a ghost from the past. Discuss various solutions to see how the other person feels. and finally.. Be Grateful... for all the things that your partner does, large, small, and acknowledge them. do this and u should be fine..now having said all of that, perhaps i should start heeding my own advise. |
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