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When i read your concerns, i tried to read between tha lines! I can see that it seems that the men start to visualize their own insecurities when meeting such a person as yourself! To be so indecisive , creates a serious doubt in my mind whether they would suit you- as an ideal partner in a meaningful relationship!! I think that by the males focussing on their own negativities, distorts tha picture of who you really are!! You do deserve someone that will add another dimension to a romantic relationship, and make u feel comfortable through the process! Definately, for such a lovely lady as yourself , it will happen !!

HELLO DILEMMA, HMM SOUNDS SO FAMILIAR MOST MEN FEEL INTIMIDATED BY WOMAN WHO ARE INDEPENDENT AND KNOW WAT THEY WANT AND DONT WAIT ON A MAN TO GET IT 4 THEM , SO THAT SCARES MOST MEN. EMPOWERMENT IS A BIG THING MOST MEN TURN TO FEMALES THAT ARE WEAK AND FLEE FROM THE ONES THAT R STRONG, JUS HOL THE FAITH , UR MAN SOON COME!

u have'n find a man like me, just come knocking i be there

he that finds a wife find a good thing(not saying u are going to that level at this moment) ...that's the principle on which relationships are supposed to be started... why as women, successful on whatever level we feel the need to scout and look... a man's crushed ego...he's shy...he doesn't want to be rejected...plz...MAN UP (said with madd respect)...assume ur role as a man...we all get hurt and bruised in the battle called relationships...let go and move on...and put ur best foot forward... miss i can understand the frustation of being prosperous in ever other level but not in the one that would give you the most joy...but hold on...there is nothing wrong with you...you are just one of the few percentage of women in the world who are doing what they are supposed to be doing...being a decent lady...handling your bizness...so that when he comes your way you will have something to bring to the table...instead of those with their hands open sucking the life from our men...i digress... be aware of what u ask for cause you just might get it...all i can say is for you to truely be prepared for what's in store...cause it's a beautiful thing...lol...;-)

Be patient,please don't try to be 'Miss high and mighty" as some educated women are. You will capture the right man's heart at the right time.You are a beautiful woman but don't settle for any kind of relationship,things will fall into place, you'll see. My wife will soon be graduating from mona with her degree,i am very proud of her ,i have never had that level of education but i will be right beside her.It's only some men who are intimidated by this.You will find your man.

Truly I did try to make it short but my fingers just kept on typing LOL hush. They are judging you based on the fact that some not all ladies who are successful tend to be agrressive or bitchy. Men want to feel like they are in charge of things. It crushes their egos so to speak to know their woman is more educated than they are, not to mention some women tend to want to rule and be his mother telling him what to do and when not to do it. Its not that they are afraid of you they feel like because of your achievements they will look small with you and never be able to measure up. Not all guys are like this though a man thats educated right along side you would go perfectly well and appreciate and love the fact that you dedicated your time to be who you are and love your independence. Then again it all depends on your taste in men. Maybe your not looking for someone with the same level of education or success which could be hard. Look at it he would always feel like you're the one who would have to do most of the providing. The terrible thing is you don't fit the bill but women are sometimes steriotyped this way. That's my opinion, I see it in my office every day. Ladies that are up there so to speak tend to throw their weight around and lord forbid if a man ever step on their corn. You know the one's I speak of "I DON'T NEEED NO MAN TO DO ANYTHING FOR ME" Once a woman take on this mind set it shows and men tend to get turned of by it. For what its worth as Baciip1nk said leave it alone he will find you if you search for him in frustration you gonna accept or choose any old thing and invite trouble into your life

Hey, i don't know if i could really relate to this dilemma. but i just have somthing to say. i don't wan to give you the wrong advice or tell you what to do. but i think that u shouldn't find the right guy. i think you should let the right one come to you. i mean u are a very pretty lady. don't let yourself down soo fast.. Just don't worris about it!!. You'll find the right one. =)