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Ladies, I have a dilemma and I don't know if you can relate. I am an attractive woman. I have a successful career where I meet different people everyday. I have a very vibrant personality. I take care of myself totally - meaning - I pay all my bills. I go on vacation when I want. Basically my life is alright financially. BUT. For some reason I have a problem getting a man. I have lots of male firends and when I ask them what they think the problem is. Almost all of them say that they would be afraid to approach a woman like me. Whn I ask why, they say that if they go out and see me, yes, they would find me attractive but they would not approach me because they don't think I would think they are good enough for me.